My principles of good life

1. Concentration
Focus on the present moment and thinking only about task at hand.

2. Self-awareness and self-control
Monitoring of thoughts, curbing impulse, awareness of my emotions, appropriate handling of my emotions.

3. Altruism
Self-sacrifice, thinking about others, unselfishly helping others, never expecting anything in return.

4. Courage
Doing what I believe to be right without being afraid of consequences.

5. Detachment
Detachment to results. Detachment to all material things - success, achievement, respect, money, status, friendship, love, etc.

6. Self-belief & self-respect
Belief that I am pure and I will triumph over all obstacles and succeed in realising my ideals. A belief that I am valuable and worthy.

7. All is for good
A belief that all that has happened is for good and all that will happen in future will also be for good. The Divine Will always prevails.

8. Disregarding future
It is always the unexpected and the undreamt of that happens. So, I should not think too much, or worry at all about future, and just work in present in accordance to principles.

9. Love
Love as the highest ideal.

10. Following the heart
Always follow my heart. As Swami Vivekanand says, "In a conflict between your head and your heart, follow your heart!"

11. Good communication
- Thinking about other person's viewpoint.
- Being unbaised
- Clarity about my thoughts
- Not being intimidated. Not being aggressive.

12. Professionalism
- Hard work
- Know every aspect of the work I am involved in
- Work selflessly for the client

Kalyan to Ghatkopar in 35 minutes!!

We hit the national highway at Kalyan at 7:10 p.m. The thought of driving at night with no street lights was not very exciting. The pain of trying to concentrate on the road while headlights of vehicles travelling in opposite direction blinded you totally worried me. Anyway, I was determined to do my best. I started following the tailligths of the vehicle ahead of me, keeping safe distance from it. As the road twisted and turned the refecltors at the edges of the road guided me safely, while a florescent white colour clearly demarcated the lane I should keep.

Before long we touched Thane. We had not taken a single halt. No red lights, cross roads, no pedestriants ... no cows either! The efficient guy at the toll naka did not waste any time and the only halt we made was a short one at Mulund signal. Although there were quite a few vehicles, the four-lane highway was big enough for everyone to move at their top speed. At 7:45 p.m., when we reached Ghatkopar, we couldn't believe our eyes - Indian roads are have changed like magic!

Change Management - Biggest challenge in software projects

Change management is the biggest challenge in software projects. Every change in an organization causes uncertainty. Someone has to take personal responsibility for the risk involved in the change. This means someone risking his/her career for the project. The person taking ownership should have the power to push through risky or controversial changes.

Teesta Setalvad figths for Godhra victims!

I was surprised to read a news item in today's ToI by Smita Deshmukh that Teesta Setalvad is fighting for Godhra victims! Piqued, I went on to read the whole stuff. Here's it in a capsule:

According to Teesta Setalvad -
* False evidence has been gathered by the prosecution against the accused
* Application of POTA for Godhra is questionable
* There is no evidence of a terrorist conspiracy in the case (isn't it for the courts to decide?)

Good! My worldview isn't flawed. Teesta Setalvad is indeed fighting for the accused ... as expected.

The article does raise one question though :-
What cumpulsions drive sane and sensible journalists to write misleading articles?
Any expert answers?

A good thought

No man should ever be looked down upon. In his own way each person is struggling towards the same end. Hence each person deserves respect.

Quote for the day - 3

"Be what you are"

Be who you are and say what you feel because people who mind don't matter and people who matter don't mind!
Theodor Seuss Geisel (1904-1991)
Writer

Meeting deadlines & quality of work

We shouldn't compromise quality of work to meet deadlines, because when the quality of work is compromised, deadlines are not met anyway. First we have to determine how best we can do the work without considering timelines. Only then should we think of timelines and plan how to meet those with minimum impact to quality of work.

Quote for the day - 2

In a conflict between your head and your heart, follow your heart!
- Swami Vivekanand

Quote for the day - 1

Purity, patience, persevernce are three essentials of success, and above all love.
- Swami Vivekanand